Hats off to all Indian men who think like this GUY: read this really good.

> This letter was written in response to an article in
> the NY times: (with
> no
> harm meant to anyone in particular)
>
> Dear Editor:
>
> I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your
> Indian male
> readers. I
> am a White female who is engaged to an Indian male,
> good-looking,
> educated
> and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Indian
> female's attitudes
> about
> our relationship.
>
> My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
> amongst Indian women
> were
> slim to none. As he said they were either too fat,
> too loud, too mean,
> too
> argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or
> carrying too much excess
> baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went
> out I was constantly
> approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine
> me and give me the
> world.
> If Indian women are so up in arms about us being
> with their men, why
> don't
> they look at themselves and make some changes. I am
> tired of the dirty
> looks
> I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I
> would like to hear
> from
> some Indian men about why we white women are so
> appealing and coveted by
> them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years
> for one of us.
> Charles
> Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford,
> Montell Williams,
> Quincy
> Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney
> Poitier, Kofi Anan,
> Cuba
> Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy
> Blanks, Larry Fishburne,
> Wesley Snipes...I could go on and on. But, right
> now, I'm a little angry
> and
> that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad
> with us White women
> because so many of your men want us. Get your acts
> together and learn
> from
> us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If
> I'm wrong, Indian
> men,
> let me know.
>
> Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
>
>
>
> The Response:
>
> Dear Editor:
> I would like to respond to the letter written by A
> Disgusted White Girl.
> Let
> me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Indian
> man. I graduated from
> one
> of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta,
> Georgia with a Bachelor
> of
> Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good
> job at a major
> corporation
> and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
> myself to be among
> the
> ranks of successful Non-White men.
>
> I will not use my precious time to slander white
> people. I just want to
> set
> the record straight of why Indian men date white
> women.
>
> Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why
> Indian men dated white
> women
> was because they were considered easy. The Indian
> girls in my
> neighborhood
> were raised traditionally. They were very strict
> about when they lost
> their
> virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
> impatience to wait,
> brothers would look for someone who would give it up
> easy without too
> much
> hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
>
> Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Indian males date
> white women because
> they
> are docile and easy to control. A lot of Indian men,
> because of
> insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have
> become intimidated by
> the
> strength of our Indian women. We are afraid that our
> woman will be more
> successful than us, make more money than us, drive
> nicer cars and own
> bigger
> houses. Because of this fear, many Indian men look
> for a more docile
> woman.
> Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous
> Indian men and they
> continuously comment on how easy it is to control
> and walk over their
> white
> women.
>
> I just want to set the record straight. I want A
> Disgusted White Girl to
> know that not all successful Indian men date white
> women. Non-Whites
> like
> Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan,
> Morris Chestn! ut, Will
> Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds,
> Samuel L. Jackson,
> and
> Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And,
> to flip the script,
> there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot
> light, who openly
> or
> secretly desire Non-White women over white women.
> Ted Danson, Robert
> DeNiro,
> and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a
> disgusted white girl
> to
> be misinformed.
>
> Stop thinking that because you are white that you
> are some type of
> goddess.
> Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like
> Hatsepshut and Nitorcris
> were
> ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you
> were over in the caves
> of
> Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over
> the head with clubs.
> Read
> your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught
> you how to cook and
> season your food. It was the Non-White woman that
> taught you how to
> raise
> your children. It was Non-White women who were
> breastfeeding and raising
> your babies during slavery. It is the Non-White
> woman that had to endure
> watching their fathers, husbands, and children
> beaten, killed, and
> thrown in
> jail. Indian women were born with two strikes
> against them: being
> Non-White
> and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They
> Rise!
>
> It is because of the Indian women's strength,
> elegance, power, love and
> beauty that I could never date anyone except my
> Indian Queen. It is not
> just
> the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to
> them. It is not the
> fact
> that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and
> shades that I love
> them.
> Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing
> about Indian women.
> Their
> strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their
> integrity, their
> ability to
> overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand
> for what they
> believe
> in, and their determination to succeed and reach
> their highest potential
> while enduring great pain and suffering is why I
> have fallen in love
> with
> Indian women. I honestly believe that your anger is
> geared more toward
> jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If this were
> not so, then why do
> you
> continuously go to tanning salons to darken your
> skin? If you are so
> proud
> to be white, then why don't you just be happy with
> your pale skin? Why
> do
> you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts
> with unnatural and
> dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
> voluptuous? I think
> that your anger is really a result of you wanting to
> have what the
> Non-White
> woman has.
>
> BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman,
> someone I can walk
> over
> and control, I would give you a call. But,
> unfortunately, I am looking
> for a
> Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and
> mother to my
> children.
> Someone who can be my best friend and understands my
> struggles. I am
> looking
> for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and
> CANNOT fit the bill.
>
> No offense taken, none given.
>
> Signed,
>
> Indian Royalty